LOSS

Loss... how do u deal with it?

whether it is the death of a loved one or a dear friend going away for ever...

it is like a dream, u enjoy it when it lasts, then u wake up and u can't even recall what it was ...nobody can help u remember because u alone were a part of it.

u lose something that u know u will never get back ...u feel left alone, left behind, passed by...it is unbearably painful ...the pain never goes away...

u lose something, u gain something, but one can never compensate for the other

I think there is only one thing worse... having to let go of something, knowing that u r never going to get it back ...u want to stop it with every bit of your heart and soul, and yet, u let it slip from your hand, gone forever...

it is said, Time heals all wounds... memories fade... but how long can u live without your memories? ...Man is but only a shell, if u take away his dreams and feelings and memories, they are all intertwined to make him what he is

ultimately, u learn to live with it and move on ...that is life, its not always fair

I always think of victims of natural calamities, wars and riots ...entire families and settlements wiped off ...life as they had known it till then, completely turned upside down ...how do they survive? ...they go on with hopes of a better future ...hope is what keeps us going

Hope is God's greatest gift to mankind ...it is what inspires us to keep trying, loving and living...